I didn't find this method in a textbook.
I grew up in a spiritual community where unconditional love was spoken about constantly — and yet I couldn't feel it anywhere. Not in the world around me. Not in the people closest to me.
As a teenager, the pain of that became unbearable. I self-harmed. I wanted to leave this world.
I carried it into adulthood, along with everyone else's unprocessed trauma. I was desperately ill and dissociated Then a rare moment changed everything.
Not through therapy. Not through a modality. But through a direct inner experience that revealed something I had never understood before:
I had been searching for love in the wrong direction.
What came through me was a 7-step inner conversation that went straight to the root of where love felt missing — and filled it from within.
It didn't just help me survive. It transformed my life completely.
I created this work first for myself. Then for my children — because I refused to pass on what had been passed to me. Then for the millions of people around the world who were quietly searching for the same thing I had been searching for.
After teaching this method for 20 years and training practitioners in 16 countries, I have watched this work reach places that years of insight, therapy, meditation, visualisation techniques and healing modalities could not reach. People frequently call it "Miraculous!"
Because when a person reconnects to themselves with love… healing happens automatically.
This is my life's work and now it is in your hands.
Tara Love Perry - The UK's leading Self-Love Teacher, Global Pioneer, Creator of I Love You, Me ®Method, Breathe & Receive™ and Transformational Self-Love Therapy™